Homemade Dungeon Device - hopefully......

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Play vs. Punishment

Well, after much aggravation, I was finally able to figure out how to make the picture at the beginning of the blog a more acceptable size (Oh look! There's a button marked 'shrink to fit' - what a concept! *blush*). My only regret is that I figured it out before I got cranky enough to get a punishment spanking. Ah well, you can't have everything! LOL!


Almost all of the spankings I receive are playful and my favorite foreplay. Sometimes, just for grins and giggles, Ken and I will go out to the 'woodshed' as we call it - it's actually just an old garage/workshop - and take turns reddening each other's backsides and then text back and forth comparing notes on the 'sting factor' for the rest of the day. LOL! However the one punishment spanking I earned since we began living the BDSM lifestyle was SO different. There's a psychological reaction that I didn't expect at all, and spent pretty much the rest of the day analyzing my reaction to it. I kept thinking it was so bizarre that while he uses a wooden paddle with no breaks to stop and rub my butt as he usually does, which of course is much more painful, it actually made me feel better and alleviated my guilt. I didn't expect that at all! As a child, I was never spanked that I can remember, but I was severely physically and emotionally abused until I was able to escape from the hell hole of a home I grew up in. Logic would dictate that the last thing I would want or need was physical punishment, yet I find myself craving it. I am still analyzing this weird phenomenon and would like to ask anyone who is reading this:


What kind of home did you grow up in? Did you have two loving, stable parents? What are your thoughts on why you enjoy spanking, whether as a top or bottom? Any feedback would be appreciated greatly.


More later on thoughts and opinions on why we are the way we are, and of course, as promised, pics and info on our 'home-made' dungeon equipment.


Happy Spanking Y'all!


The Switchers

Holy Crap!

Hi Fellow Kinks,


As you can see, I'm still having some problems setting up our blog. Like, it was not my intention to include a life-size photo of my husbands gorgeously paddled ass, but there it is, in all it's glory! LOL!


Please 'bare' with me as I fix this and I think you will especially enjoy our next post about our homemade 'dungeon device'.


Happy Spanking!


The Switchers

Spank me please?

This being the first ever post to our new blog, I thought I would begin with a humorous incident that happened this morning. I'm sitting here in my comfy recliner, trying to figure out how to do this blankety-blank blog thing when my husband approaches me with a big ol' grin on his face and holding his favorite 3/8" rod in one hand and one of our blue acrylic paddles in the other. Of course I was happy to oblige him, so I put down my laptop and followed him into the bedroom where I had him drop trou. I then proceeded to thoroughly stripe his beautiful ass with about 30 strokes with the rod followed by at least 20 swats with the paddle. By the time I was done, his ass was a beautiful shade of red with a blending of ripe, red stripes and he was moaning with pleasure. When he got up, it was obvious he was very aroused, and I admit to feeling a bit jealous as I normally would have asked him to reciprocate, but my 'birthday present' from last week was still prevalent and I need to give it another day or two to finish healing. It was the best birthday gift I'd ever received. The better part of an hour and half with both wrists cuffed to a bar attached to the ceiling of our 'wood shed' behind our house where I was treated to every spanking implement we own while blindfolded followed by 53 strokes of the cane for each year. I can't wait until later on this year when HE turns 53 and I get to see if he can take it as well as I did. LOL!

We have been married for 23 years and have only recently REALLY gotten into spanking. We couldn't 'indulge' very much before now because of our kids and lack of privacy. Now that we have the time and privacy, we find we are still trying to figure out parts of it. The fun spankings we definitely have down. Since we started, I have received a punishment spanking for failing to pay the water bill resulting in our water being shut off. It was the first punishment spanking I've received - at least that I can remember - and it left me feeling a bit stunned, but also loved (more so than I already do, anyway) and very happy that he cared enough to punish me for being so irresponsible. I am the poster child for adult ADD and I refuse to take meds for it as I find them to be dangerous and addictive, but I honestly think spanking is the answer to helping me keep motivated to keep up with things better. I mean, I am so bad at losing things that I once lost our annual passes to Walt Disney World. Luckily, my dear husband had saved the receipt in his wallet so we were able to replace them. I finally found them, 7 years later, in a file folder in our personal file cabinet marked "Misc. BS" *roll eyes*. I can't begin to explain why I thought it was a good idea to put them there and because of my ADD, my memory doesn't function well. I'm hoping that a sore, red backside will do what I have never quite succeeded at, no matter how hard I've tried - to be more 'normal' when it comes to organization and responsibilities.

Most of all, I hope anyone who chooses to follow our blog has as much fun reading it as we are having sharing it. We have many, many funny stories to share, which is why we decided to do this. We are also hoping to share some of our ideas (like for instance, we tend to shop for sex toys at Lowe's) and learn from others as well.

Happy spanking everyone!

The Switchers